 Spanking
By AJ on 18 Aug 2005
By AJ at SB HQ
Most people don't really think about spanking too much, once they leave their childhoods. Your parents spanked you when you were bad, you hated it, learned your lesson, and then grew up and got on with life. That's the normal story. And it doesn't seriously cross your mind again until one day you're ploughing into some chick from behind, her ass is sticking invitingly into the air, and you give it a thwack with your hand. And that's as far as it goes, one or two smacks just to enhance the good time you're having and make a fun sound.
Some of us, however, have a sexuality innately tied in with the act of the spanking itself. When I was a kid, I didn't get spanked very much, nor did I ever consider it as anything other than a painful result of some mistake I'd made. I didn't realise until years later that there was a very good reason my Roald Dahl books were so well thumbed around the pages where he experienced corporal punishment at school. Now it's an element of sex I couldn't live without and the mere thought, suggestion or sight of it gives me the horn big time. What's more, I know I'm not alone in this.
Spanking, when you have a taste for it, can be one of the most fulfilling parts of sex. You don't have to be a total deviant or crazy about pain to enjoy it, nor do you have to have a dungeon full of equipment, or any special clothes to get truly into it. You can do it almost anywhere, without breaking any obscenity laws, and no matter how much or how little you do it, before, during or after sex, it's always a turnon.
How to incorporate it all into sex though? Why would people want to be spanked at all? Plenty of reasons, you just have to experience them.
The sound of flesh being smacked is a very immediate and satisfying part of it, and the yelps and cries of a girl in pleasurable distress more music to the ears. The intimate tactile feel of your hand making such hard contact with the flesh of her backside.
And the sight...a tenderised rump, round and raised, wriggling under your onslaught of gentle or not so gentle blows. Some of you will find the gradual change of colour from peachy flesh tone through to pink through to red an especially erotic part of it all, not least because it was your hand that did it.
And needless to say - spanking goes hand in hand with bondage.
The roleplay is varied and hot too, each spanking can be unique and enjoyable in different ways. There's the popular schoolgirl roleplay, which is enormous fun, and then there's pre sex wrestling and rough and tumble which ends with her getting well and truly shown her place.
Then there's more ritual spankings, usually as part of established dominant and submissive roles. The ritual and powerplay gets better the more you know your partner, and often the mindgames go on for hours in and out of bed, making every day a new horny adventure for you both.
And what's in it for the spankee, the lucky girl writhing under your hand? If she's enjoying it, as well as producing endorphins to make the pain feel good, she'll be getting really damn wet too. The longer you tease her with spanking and bend her to your will with the associated roleplay that comes naturally alongside it, the more horny and compliant she will be to do your bidding afterwards.
There's no better fuck than a girl who's just had her arse thoroughly warmed and who's been put in a frame of mind which encourages her to expand her sexual limits.
But, I hear some of you cry, I have no willing victim! Which films do I watch in order to enjoy girls being spanked?
Here's a few... Goddess Freya Spanker is a good one to start with - plenty of hand spanking in amongst lots of equipment - whips, paddles and the like. Two trespassing girls get thoroughly tenderized, giving the movie a nice roleplaying element as well. Highly recommended!
If you want a more sexual element to your spanking, with lots of boy/girl action too, try Yes Master, in which two girls (notice a theme here?) are abused by their master before being made to pleasure him and each other.
The other movies from all contain spanking scenes too, but in my opinion, these are the best of the bunch.
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