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This month, sexy Starr has taken on the role of Agony Aunt, and is helping out with a very complex problem.

'Dear Pornstar'

Really, I kind of feel bad, somewhat for myself, but mostly for my love. I only stay hard about two hours, now that I'm in my forties. I don't care to try any drugs to extend it. But, back in my twenties, I could maintain a woodie for up to 6 hours.

My current girlfriend orgasms about every twenty minutes. I tend to just use my member for alignment, as my pubic bone pounds hers. I finally learned to lock my arms, resting my fists above her shoulders, so my pounding doesn't scoot her across the bed.

After five or so orgasms, she is spent.

She gets cotton-mouth, and all her vaginal lubricant is in a puddle beneath my manhood. Apparently, a circumcised member tends to draw her excitement out, like the plunger in a syringe. Yet, for all that pounding, and all her climactic

My question? How can I finally get there? She gets five orgasms, but I get zero. Apparently, I am amongst the five-percent with retarded ejaculation, instead of among the enviable majority, blessed with pre-mature ejaculation. (At least the premie's can reproduce, regularly.)

It's great that I'm all awake and attentive for afterplay. I try to enjoy the orgasms, vicariously, knowing she is well pleased. But it seems I have to resort to still-images on a monitor, of panty-clad women whose puffy lips press outward beneath smooth-stretchy fabric.

My lady has tried to help, wearing leotards, swimwear, panties, nylons & spandex shorts. Consistently, I can only get there if I focus my gaze upon her pussy-lips, clad in spandex, zoning in on the area where her labia descends into her love-canal, beneath the panty. And then, I must stroke myself vigorously for about half an hour, to finally shower her with my seed.

Have I simply viewed too many pictures, locking myself into a compulsive routine? Perhaps what I though would be a temporary solution, just to grant me guilty pleasure until I found a wife, had resulted in a permanent mindset, now barring me from shared pleasure.

Can you offer any techniques? What mindset do male pornstars use, to be able to orgasm, on cue? How can I learn it?

Many thanks, in advance.

Starr

Dear Strictly News reader, Thank you for sharing your problem with me.

Firstly I want to say that anyone who can stay hard for 2 hours, make me cum 5 times and scoot me across a bed sounds like a right treat! 6 hours in your twenties was outstanding work but something most girls would only want on their birthdays as this length of time is almost a whole nights sleep, a day off work or one day taken from your 2 day weekend.

It doesn't seem to me like your girlfriend has a problem and she's getting what she wants and she sure sounds like she wants it from you. You get it the way you want and she doesn't mind your little interest. Whether you've become the way you have through too much internet viewing or you were destined to be that way anyway is impossible to say.

I am though enjoying maybe a little more than I should, your descriptions of puffy lips stretching fabric. Have you ever thought of building a website so that you can enjoy it and make money from it too with your girlfriend as your 1st model? That way you'll be in contact with a lot of men with the same interests!

As for porn star guys, well who knows what goes on in their heads when they close their eyes and start wanking like fury! I've a feeling it might be so strange that they'd never tell the truth about it and it often takes some editing to make it look like it's on cue.

My only idea for working towards combining pounding your lover, puffy stuff and internal orgasm is to get the girl your with to hold your favorite pic on her face or chest while your at it on top of her and I think after 5 orgasms she does owe you that much.

Please let me know if there's any progress and also the best websites for a tight lycra beginner like me.

See more of Starr at her website, Starrtime, and don't forget to write in with any sex or porn related questions that our beautiful problem-solving pornstar can help you with!